![]() Most of the time she takes the comments in stride but for some reason, this year, he was just laying it on hard. For some reason when she walks in a room, men just turn stupid. People stare at her often and men hit on her all the time. Willow and I have been friends since college and she is tall, confident, and she is very well endowed (both in the front and the back). The part about her cooking breakfast does sound a little unfair but she makes the most amazing pecan caramel cinnamon rolls And it’s become sort of a tradition for her to make them for the kids.Īs for the sexual-harassment from my idiot BIL. But maybe it’s time I told her how much I appreciate having her in my life. You don’t have to tell me how lucky I am. She messages me her days off asking to babysit, she will ask to pick the baby up from daycare, and frequently takes all the kids out on “adventures”. I had to cut it out to make the word count. Both BIL and SIL are my husband’s biological brother and sister (his two brothers and sister were on the trip) SIL is the harpy and BIL is his newly divorced brother. Did I over react? Am I the Asshole?ĮDIT: To clear a few things up. Now I am torn, maybe I should have asked her if she wanted to help out. I can’t ask any of my siblings’ perspective because I know that they are also jealous of the kind of friendship that Willow and I have. He is downstairs right now STILL trying to placate his mother. I told him that I wasn’t going to put her that kind of position. My husband thinks that I should have at least asked Willow before I said no. She then proceeded to lay out a plan where my best frackin friend would be passed around like some kind of.Mammy (This would probably be a good time to mention that my best friend is black). She told me that maybe if she paid Willow to watch my SIL’s kids for a night she would get over her jealousy. My MIL called soon after to apologize and ask for Willow’s number. I told her she was crazy and I wasn’t going to ask my best friend to watch 12 children! SHE DOESN’T EVEN LIKE CHILDREN. She then called me bitch because I saw that they all were tired and frazzled and I could have at least asked Willow to watch all of the kids. I told her that Willow was NOT my nanny and that she paid her own way. The morning of checkout, Willow made breakfast because it was her turn and (of course) my SIL had to comment “You cook for them too? Wow”.Īfter we returned, I got a text from my SIL calling me a snob for bringing our “Nanny” on the trip. I asked Willow if she minded if we just went out to the resort lounge and she was quite happy to kick us out. When we came back that evening the kids announced that they were camping out in the living room with aunt Willow. Later on, on the lake, SIL made a joke about asking Willow to watch ALL the kids tomorrow but we laughed it off. So she announced that she was tired and offered to take the kids back to the cabin.ĭay 3 comes and she (of course) asks if she can have the kids for the day. At around 10 the baby was asleep on Willow, the adults were drinking (she does not), and BIL was being creepy. This year, when the restrictions were lifted in our state, we came up to the lake. ![]() She always says that this time with her god kids is the real reason why she comes. I know her well enough to know that she is usually done with the sun, the water, and BIL hitting on her by this time. By day three she offers to hang with the kids at the cabin. She will always offer to watch the kiddos if we want some alone time and has kept them overnight more than once.Įvery summer my husband’s family likes to rent cabins by the river and Willow usually tags along. Even my (surprise) bonus baby girl cries when she leaves to go home. She does, however, love mine and they all adore her. Willow is childless and does NOT like kids. I have an amazing best friend named “Willow”. ![]() The original post is by u/Momof4CrazyKiddosįirst of all, I do not have a nanny.
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